34 – Birthday Thoughts – Flow VS Control | Dewan Bayney
Dewan Bayney2022-04-11T17:59:41+00:00Birthday Thoughts - Flow VS Control Big thank you for the birthday wishes took the weekend to relax/reflect on what undoubtedly has been the "best year of my life" 2018 was a really rough one for me many of the things I thought were "done / complete / certain" ended up falling apart. I ended up going through a 3-year process of self-discovery: Multiple moments of complete rock bottom and some dark moments of "what’s the point" Therapy, Men's Work, Periods of "doing nothing" periods of overcompensation - other stints of mass overindulgence. *** Lockdowns happened and my "travel the world" plans were squashed and was forced home with nowhere to run or fix me externally. Looking back it was the best thing that could have happened to me. *** My #1 biggest learning lesson has been that we are "chasing flow" state (internal creation) and NOT outside stimulus. The